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Our volunteers, Gateway Assessors and Advisers are trained by our own training team to the highest standards to delivery this information and advice through multiple channels including email, telephone, face to face and web chat.
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My partner and I are experiencing relationship problems but we don’t want to split, where can we get help to stay together?
Relate are the UK’s largest provider of relationship support, and last year they helped over two million people of all ages, backgrounds, sexual orientations and gender identities to strengthen their relationships. Find out more about what they do and how they can help you through the following link.
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Any follow up work will be agreed between your adviser and you. This may include negotiating on your behalf with other organisations by letter or phone. We will discuss any offer with you before accepting it, unless you have specifically told us what to do.
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To keep appointments you have made with us or let us know in advance if you can’t make it.
To inform us of any changes in your circumstances which may be relevant to your case. Examples of relevant changes are change of address, birth of a child, additional income
To bring in all the papers relevant to your case which your adviser asks for. This includes notification of court or tribunal dates etc.
Not to take action on your case on your own behalf without discussing it first with your adviser.
To provide written evidence of your income, debts or other financial matters where appropriate. Your adviser will let you know what is needed.
To follow our advice – unless you and your adviser agree you should do something different.
To be honest with us about the circumstances of your case, for instance by telling us about all your debts and income or what led up to your being asked to leave your employment.
To always treat our staff and volunteers with dignity and respect.
We reserve the right to stop advising you if:
You turn down a reasonable offer from the other party because you wish to take the matter to a tribunal or court hearing. Your adviser will discuss with you whether an offer is reasonable in the circumstances.
You do not follow our expectations listed here.
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